Let’s talk about this sensitive topic today, we as a teenager always mistakenly take love, the purest emotion one can experience as some kind of opportunity to fulfill our fantasies, desires be it lust, loneliness, social status, humor etc.. But are we able to live up to the fullest and experience this emotion or even touch 1% of this experience.
We use words like soulmates, true love as a metaphor to address that very person we claim to love and commit our lives to them. But this isn’t about fulfilling a specific emotion or condition, love isn’t just an emotion it includes, passion, determination, commitment and above all the amount of happiness we feel when we are with that very person.
Love is therefore a super emotion, I’d rather say it is a complex emotion. As complex it seems, it is difficult to experience.
It’s really hard to know the real intentions of a person towards us as everyone out there is not trustworthy neither we can try a pawn with everyone!
In teenage , what we basically experience at the age of 14-18 is kind of affection , habit and lust and we also try to fulfill our desires/fantasies in the name of love, what I said should not be confused with the fact that love can be experienced in Teenage also! Yes!
If, you are wise enough to understand that there is no true love or a right person and better consider complete love and try to be the right person and live happily in all situations then you may tick your checklist for your perfect partner and start being happy with the person you share a great bond and experience love at its best.
Just be honest and have no negativity, selflessly be your best and love will come through your wisdom, not your looks! Ummm… that’s a criteria as well but we are talking more philosophy right now!. 😉
If you are happy and satisfied with the one you are, right now and you accept them and stand with them in their good or bad then all you need is the determination to stick to them for as long as you can.
And if you feel that you are in a way in an unhealthy relationship and you are not happy, then feel free to take your decision as I consider being happy is the ultimate goal, isn’t it?
So, should our partner pass some test or its just about being the right person for each other?
Ummm, to that question I’d rather say, having each other’s back at all times and trusting each other is something really important, no matter what happens to be there for them, stand with them if they are wrong, Try to convince them to change their path if they don’t then no matter if they are wrong, stand with them and support them with the best you can.
Hey, but does it mean we are sacrificing a lot for them, is it good?
Ahaa! that’s what your mind will say, right? But it isn’t this easy! It’s just that when you will show some guts to sacrifice your self-respect or any one for that person, it won’t be much of a deal because, this will eventually even up when you’ll be in there position one day! See life comes with its own pros and cons, and it won’t be good for you all the time, It’s really important to give that very person your time and priority, and this can get complex at times, because there can be something or someone who will not let you give your best to that very person and this ruins everything with our special someone, then it gets important to end all the stupidity and try to solve the problem and talk to them, and try to come back at it with 100% desire and happiness, talk and solve.
Hey brahh!, Imma solve all problems with sex! Cool aahh!
Haha, Sex is fine and all but are you wise enough to talk to him/her? and solve your problems? Will sex help you build trust and a strong foundation for your relationship, the thing is not having to talk about a particular problem will only end up being the reason for your breakup, It gets easy for any random guy/girl to take away that very person from you. So be a keeper, do good in all fields da!, Be it sex or conversation, it has to be the best! Hahahahaha!
Talk and talk more and more, Don’t hold back what you want to say, express, don’t think of the consequence be on the right page and share your feelings with him/her, and if they are adamant to not listen or speak, introspect yourself, then wait! Try to mend things up, if things don’t get better and gets messier and you are not happy, Now is the time to think if you want this or not!
So it concludes this short piece of content I wrote to tell you guys about love, what I basically feel love is with my point of view, though it is a really vast topic and this short article will not do justice to it, If you wanna talk one-on-one about love and go deeper into the topic, Then leave a comment down below or follow me on my social media profiles.
Till then Stay tuned, Have fun! And Love and be Happy!
P.S. If you are single(Me too), Have fun buddy, enjoy! Hahahahaha!